|Life Is A Dance With Desires and Fears|
Or Will You Live Life With Regrets
Life is a dance, or sometimes I say a balancing act, between what you desire most and what you fear most. Do you want to take a risk at that new job? It excites you, but you also have fear of the unknown. Do you want to go back to school full time, like me, at the age of 50? You get these immense butterflies of excitement and nervousness in your gut, but then you feel that dread saying "what if I don't make it?" or "can I really do this?"
Big decisions are hard decision, but the decisions you don't act upon are the decisions you regret later in life. My son reminded me of an interview a nurse did with a group of elderly dying patients. Here are the top regrets:
1. I wish I lived a life true to myself and not what others expected of me.
2. I wish I hadn't worked so hard and spent more time with family and friends.
3. I wish I had the courage to express my feelings.
4. I wish I chose to be happier.
5. I wish I traveled more.
These are only just a few of the regrets. Since then, many interviews have taken place and these interviews have revealed many more regrets.
Every time I make a decision, I always think about Tony Robbins analogy which is, When I am sitting in a rocking chair at 80, 90, or 100 years old and I am looking back at my life, what do I see? Am I happy with the choices I made? Do I have an amazing story to tell my grandchildren (or others)? Or are my memories filled with regrets?
Wake Up to Live with Desiree Leigh
Wake Up to Live is about awareness in every aspect. Waking up to live life is about questioning the social norms and the things that feel uncomfortable to talk about. Wake Up to Live is about becoming awake to our biases, prejudices, and injustices. Waking up to live life is about waking up from unconsciousness to see what is really true. Although waking up to live life with awareness and clarity may be difficult to do because now we must begin to make the hard choices, we must strive to Wake Up to Live and be responsible for our actions and the actions of others. We are in this life together!