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The Relationship is Here to Make You Conscious

The Relationship is Here to Make You Conscious
"If you observe unconscious behaviour in your partner [or another], hold it in the loving embrace of your knowing so that you won't react."

"If you accept that the relationship is here to make you conscious instead of happy, then the relationship will offer you salvation and you will be aligning yourself with the higher consciousness that wants to be born into this world."

~Eckhart Tolle excerpted from The Power of Now

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Escaping Pain is an Epidemic, Nor Does it Heal

Escaping Pain Is an Epidemic. Nor Does It Heal
I see way too many people wanting others to escape their pain quickly so that the other person doesn't burden them. It has nothing to do with the person in pain and everything to do with them. "If you have pain, you cause me grief." Be real, many people are like this. "You change. Then I can feel good." However you define pain or hurt, it really doesn't matter. The point that I am making is that others will try to ease your pain rather than allow you to move through it. Many of us like to come to the rescue of someone who is in despair, someone who is lonely, or someone who is having a bad month. I didn't realize that escaping pain is an epidemic.

For example, when a child falls off the bike or falls for that matter, parents quickly grab the child to hug them, or go home and bake some cookies to ease the pain, or even, tell the child that the bike was bad. This is not what we want to do for other…