Wake Up to Live blog is a resource for personal development, liberation, and women self-empowerment. Wake Up to Live creates awareness about topics such as oppression, sexual violence, childhood abuse, trauma, and the patriarchal social norms. Wake Up to Live discusses the recycled legacy of abuse that must stop and shares restorative measures for mental and emotional health, wellness, and strength for women to develop themselves and succeed.
My grandfather (or whomever) may have to go to jail.He/she is too old/young to be prosecuted. You will ruin his/her life.Can you imagine what could happen to him/her if he/she had to go to jail?Just let it go. Quit living in the past.They aren't my kids, so it's not my responsibility.Keep me out of it!Well, she/he must have done something to get that treatment.It was so long ago; just forget about it.Don't tell me the gory details. Leave me out of it.Every child has to go through tough times.A little slap or two won't hurt.Reporting this will destroy our family (as if it hasn't already).Nobody needs to know.But he/she didn't do it to me; therefore, he/she couldn't have done it to you.Don't stress. Don't hurt mother and/or father. It will devastate her and/or him if you talk about it. Keep quiet.My all time favorite (sarcastically speaking): It was nothing!Let's Connect! Click the link DesireeLeigh.com and sign up to recieve a FREE eBook abou…
reference to the criminal findings of a 267-page report, Brad Wolverton writes
about how the most powerful leaders at Pennsylvania State University
continually covered up the child sexual abuse cases related to Mr. Jerry
Sandusky – Penn State’s football coach – over a span of fourteen years. He stated that Pennsylvania State
University’s leaders showed a “total disregard” for the safety and “welfare of
children” (p. 7). In
respect to sociology, how could a community so large, with various top
influential leaders, deny the safety of even one child, let alone 52 counts of
sexual abuse that Jerry Sandusky was convicted for? In reading the article, it showed that
various officials placed blame on other various individuals, repeatedly tossing
the hot potato denying the allegations; of course until there was blatant
evidence, and they could no longer deny the truth. Does this hideous crime have to do with the
various statuses and classes of society – the vulnerable, small c…
Love and Justice "Justice denied anywhere diminished justice everywhere" Martin Luther King I am fed up of listening to the condescending comments to 'be happy today and forget yesterday.' Or to broadly say that 'there is light at the end of the tunnel.' Or that 'we all have a past, so just deal with it.' These patronizing comments to a survivor of childhood abuse, rape, incest, and molestation are useless. These individuals that so broadly comment like this don't have a stand for anything or are too fearful to stand for anything. If we don't see what we are doing wrong to these abused children by looking at their experiences from the past and who did what, how can we expect to improve the future? Our children have one childhood. Allow them the right to feel joy and to receive respect, emotional care, and patience. It is their 'human right' to get it. It is not their destiny, their fate, their thought-process, their behavior, or…
The residuals of childhood trauma last forever; and society as a whole is responsible in creating the behaviors from the residuals of childhood trauma. Ultimately, society (you and me - we) is breeding these effects - the behaviors we try to control after they have become out-of-control.
Research has shown that psychological trauma from parental abuse and/or neglect (including emotional unavailability) has been linked to later abnormalities in brain development, especially in the right hemisphere (DeHart, Sroufe, & Cooper, 2004, p. 286). Even when society ignores the evidence and signs of childhood abuse, the consequences remain and affect society as a whole. Adults continue to show plasticity of the brain to reshape thought processes; although it weakens considerably with age; but growth and change, forming new thought processes and behaviors, and learning to live with the memories is constant work in progress.
We talk about gun control, we talk about incarceration, and we tal…
Is your communication style insulting, belittling, or inspiring? When writing comments in the first person, it guarantees me not to exclude myself from what is being discussed. Thus, I take on the responsibility to what I write or say. I don't direct the comment to someone else. Rather I try to influence. For instance, "when I am not expressing my own creative potential, I focus on blame in a relationship instead of focusing on creativity." I take on the responsibility personally.
On the other hand, if I write in third person, I direct the comment to others so that now I am more of a judge and juror than someone trying to support and uplift. For example, "when people aren't expressing their own potential, they focus blame on the relationship instead of focusing on their creativity." Do you see the difference? Do you feel the difference?
Many of us say and believe we are inspiring others into awareness; but when it really comes down to it, we are j…